September 12th, 2008

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FUQs (Frequently Uttered Questions)

Friday, September 12th, 2008

1. Describe the perfect date?
I love not knowing where we are going, but I am asked to dress up (not white tie, but more than daily business wear). He is dressed well, jacket, groomed, smells nice. It does not have to be expensive or public, It does not have to involve a big meal, but there should be a bit of alone time promised in there somewhere (even if it is at my/our/his place afterwards).

An intimate dinner party or a nice dinner with another couple is also nice. The intellectual stimulus and the inevitable laughing all prime me for sex later.

2. Favorite sex position?
This seems to be changeable. I used to really like to be on top, straddling Jack, facing him. I think in the early days with Jack that meant I exercised some control. Now lately he occasionally uses some power positions, like a modified missionary, where I am dangling off of the side of the bed, or tied and bent face down over the end of the bed. These are really appealing to a deep-seated submissive need of mine. I also have always been a fan of plain old doggy style when the penetration is deep and hard. On sleepy mornings we lie nearly perpendicular, Jack on his side and me on my back. That one is comfortable and has just that perfect amount of grinding. It is easy in that position to reach down and feel him entering me with my fingers, too.

The best sex is whenever we simply jump each other, desperate for a good fucking. I just want him in me, on me, fucking something, RIGHT NOW. That is the kind almost worth putting sex off for a day or two until we’re good and desperate.

Favorite fantasy position? Being eaten or played with by a girl while Jack has his way with her and me or perhaps I am between his legs playing with both of them while she is on top.

Mmmm, I need a moment.

3. Favorite toys?
Ooooh, I am enjoying each and every toy almost to excess. Vibrators are really just wonderful. Bullets, rabbits, whatever! I am sure I can find a nice place for anything you can think of in couples play. Strangely, I am not all that interested in playing with them while alone. I suppose if there is a time Jack is actually away… Well, we will have to see. Oh! I bet they would be awesome in phone/video sex. I like the ben wa balls while alone! I guess the only limit I have is size – there’s nothing about a 14-inch cock that doesn’t say “ouch” to me. I am not a big girl.

The njoy is fucking amazing. Really, that one is almost too much to take. There is not a moment when I am not coming, recovering or building to come again when that toy is in my ass. I still feel throbbing in my ass long after it has been removed. If that little plug is in my ass and Jack fucks my pussy with literally anything, I come immediately and really, really hard. I am absolutely out of control.

I have also become fond of the play pussies – watching, licking, and moving one of those over Jack’s cock is a realĀ  treat. The way the lips move and drag up and down his cock is mesmerizing. He likes it, too (I can tell). :)

4. Sexy things that attract you?
Confidence, carriage. When a guy looks like he knows who he is and in happy with his place in the world it just oozes from him and grabs my attention immediately. If he is not a total dick, he keeps my attention. Broad shoulders don’t hurt, either. Chest hair, just peeking above a shirt is hot, too.

I am not attracted to women, per se, but there is this move that women do occasionally, where long hair cascades over their face as they are looking down. Sometimes they have to smooth it back. I find myself staring at that.

5. Do you lean more toward being submissive or dominant?
Sexually, I think that one is obvious. In business I am definitely dominant. I own my own business and in my daily dealings with others I control a lot. In bed I want to be taken completely. Lead me to bed, take off my clothing, push me down, tie me up, spank me pink, make me beg, tell me what to do, hold me down and fuck me to exhaustion. Whee!

6. What do you wear to bed?
I used to wear nothing. Then children made that inadvisable. Now panties, a loose deep-V T-shirt, a camisole or something similar will do.

7. Are you exhibitionist?
Physically, probably not. I am also not interested in seeing pictures or video of myself. Even when I was young with the pre-pregnancy, tight, athletic body and perfect skin I was indifferent to pictures or videos of me. I am not sure that anyone else cares to see a picture, either. However, horny enough, I guess I just would not care who is watching as long as I am getting sex and lots of it. I do want to share what is in my head.

8. Have you or a partner ever faked an orgasm?
I haven’t. I have always been a little too orgasmic. Any sex play will do to get me off at least once. I don’t know that anyone has faked one with me. With a condom, I suppose it is possible, even for a man. I usually can keep going long enough that even a desensitized male generally has time to get off. I don’t think I have ever been to bed with someone that wasn’t fully turned on, again hard to hide in a man. I have known some occasions when the guy just did not have more to give, but had sleepy fun for a while anyway. We did not have to fake anything to just agree that it had been nice but we were both spent for the night.

9. Unusual thing that turns you on?
For some reason I am horny after some movies. I don’t know why and there is no gauging what kind of move will set me off. There is something that makes me all ready to go. It does not have to be in a theater. A movie at home, at a friend’s house, a park will all do, too. Personally I am not all that fond of theaters, mostly because of the strange smells, sounds and habits of the other patrons.