The first time I fucked Alex was also the first time anyone had ever tied her up during sex (it was also her first spanking and the first time she’d ever needed to get permission for her orgasm, but I digress). Bondage (the “sensual” kind, not the torture kind) has been high on my “favorite kinks” list almost since I started having sex. Our first sexual encounter was (very!) spontaneous. At the time, I wasn’t expecting anything like the night we had.
We’d started out with fairly conventional (if explosive) fucking, me on top, followed by her climbing onto me and impaling herself there. Alex is very short, and at the time was a petite thing. She discovered that once she’d taken me completely inside her pussy, she couldn’t really move up and down much – her knees didn’t reach the mattress. She was just stuck there, filled to the bottom with my hard-on. Not a bad situation; if there’s one thing I enjoy, it’s a hot blonde marooned on my cock. I decided to take it a little further and see how she’d react to being really stuck.
Gently, at first, I pulled her arms behind her back. Initially, she misread the body language and thought I was trying to roll her off of me, until she realized that the reason she couldn’t roll anymore was that I had clamped her wrists together behind the small of her back with my left hand, and my right was pulling her face down close to mine. She figured it out at that point, and tested my grip, flexing her arms but getting nowhere. I remember holding my breath a little, thinking that if she didn’t share my tastes, here’s where I find out.
Alex moaned, long and low, and came hard.
Keep in mind, this was our first time together, not too many hours after our first kiss. For all I knew, she might have done all of this before, but I had no idea where her boundaries were. Still, I believe when life hands you a moment like this, you should you grab it. I decided to keep going until she showed some sign of hesitation.
She’d been wearing this huge silk scarf, now fallen on the floor next to the bed. While she was finishing her orgasm, I snagged it and quickly tied her wrists together, crossed diagonally behind her. Alex is one of those women who has strings of orgasms, one leading right into the next, and that’s exactly what happened for the next few minutes.
Tied now and lost in her orgasms, she wasn’t really in much control. The way she moved her body was pretty much up to me. I put my hands behind her head, fingers tangled up in her curly hair, and kissed her. I could feel the tension in her shoulders with her arms tied back. Her huge tits were dragging up and down my chest as I rocked her body up and down mine, bottoming out my cock deep inside her with each thrust.
She started to come again, but this time was different. Early in her orgasm, I started rubbing her ass with both hands, and as she started to peak, I spanked her once, hard. Alex went crazy, moaning into my mouth as we kissed, trying to pull my cock deeper inside as she moved. I spanked her again and again, more gently (but thoroughly), until she came off the peak of her previous orgasm.
As she started winding up for the next one, I whispered into her ear that for the rest of the evening she needed to ask permission before she could come, or risk some unspecified punishment. She responded by starting to beg wildly, gasping out the words “Please, please, let me come!” between moans and deep, hot breaths. So much for hesitation.
At this point, I’d like to introduce a theory of mine. My theory is this: your body deliberately limits the strength of your orgasm to keep you from straining a muscle or otherwise damaging yourself. I believe that if you’re restrained, something happens in your brain to remove that limit, allowing you a more powerful and overwhelming orgasm. Combine that with the out-of-control, no-limits sense of submitting yourself to someone else and you’re into yet another whole new level of orgasm.
That’s where Alex found herself that night. We fucked like that for another hour, Alex coming continuously. Eventually, I started to worry about her shoulder muscles, and so I finally let myself go, filled her with cum and rolled her onto her back. She lay there in the near-dark, covered in sweat, flushed, her hair a ruin, her blue eyes shining with a happy-crazy gleam, hands still bound behind her.
Not even the first time we fucked was I ever in a rush to untie Alex. I rolled her onto her stomach and ran my hands over her (pink!) ass, lingering between her thighs, watching her spasm as I brushed her swollen pussy. I think that’s the moment when I realized that I could be sexual with just one woman for the rest of my life. After a few moments drinking her in, I turned her loose. She lay there, spent, and promptly passed out while I rubbed her back.
It’s been almost twenty years now, but the passion of that first night always comes back to me in a rush; the spontaneity, the improvised sex toys, the willingness to abandon yourself to something totally new. These are what keep marriage hot. Let yourself be crazy for each other! Trust me, it’s so worth it.