Toys

Written by alex on August 23rd, 2008

I had this idea Friday. I sent Jack an instant message and asked him to stop at the adult toy store on the way home from work. Not only did we need some more lube (and I wanted to try some new flavored options), but I thought it would be nice to get a male masturbator for us to enjoy together. It was also fun to send him a message at work that he was to go and get a “pussy” to bring home. He reacted just as I expected:  a moment of his brain shutting off followed by quick recovery and “Okay, well, yes, I’m game.”

I have this fantasy of seeing Jack’s engorged cock working a pussy. I want to be within inches of the action. Given that mine is not detachable, I am going to need some help fulfilling this fantasy. I do want to see the head of his cock press against some delicate pink lips. I want to see him push inside those lips, forcing them open. I want to see his cock slip, consumed slowly by an eager wet hole. While he slides in, I want to see the pussy lips pulled ever so slightly inside, too, as his large cock drags past. Then as he pulls back out, shiny and wet, I want to see the lips pulled along his shaft, struggling to hold him and all of the juice inside. I want to see his cum dripping from her pussy. I want to lick it when it does.

We’re still, however, worried about getting someone else into bed with us, as there is inevitably some emotional/physical baggage that will hitch along. So, I thought, what about an artificial pussy, you know, practice? The stores you can walk into do not stock the large pussy and ass combos molded after some famous porn stars. We’ll have to mail order one of those (and we will). They did have a hand held model, made of the UR3 real-feel flesh and molded after Lexie Love. It would have to do, as I was not willing to wait.

I have to admit, I don’t just want to see Jack’s cock in a pussy, I want to smell it, taste it, feel it with my fingers and hear it. A toy has some drawbacks because there won’t be a girl pinning him under her. There won’t be her voice expressing her pleasure. I can’t kiss her, put my hand on the toy’s back and push her down on him, to press her breasts to him and ask her to lean in to taste his mouth.  A toy does not come with hands to guide his to her breasts. I won’t be able to watch her ass bounce on him.  I can’t join my hands with his on her ass. I can’t grab her hips and pull her onto him.  I can’t play with her back door. I want him to be crazed by watching girl-on-girl action live in his bed and he is invited to participate. I want to prepare her for him, getting her horny and wet. I want to hear him moan when he fully realizes he has himself a chance to thoroughly enjoy a whole new woman and a threesome. When he finally understands just how much I would enjoy it, I can’t wait to hear the sound of pleasure and relief that he can have this with no fear of hurting me. Ahhh.

Sigh, well, I made do.

Earlier, I made sure to wash off “Lexie” and place “her” in a very warm water bath. Most of the complaints about the masturbators is that they are not body temperature. The plastic flesh also has a scent. Some people found it off putting. I found it slightly sweet, almost perfumed, definitely the smell of an exotic long-chain monomer. The scent will apparently wear off (as will the pink coloring of the lips). The feel of it is very convincing, although the folds of the pussy do not give like a real one. You cannot pull back on the hood, for example and reveal a swollen clit. The interior is also ribbed for more friction, too ribbed for realism. The outer lips on this model are largely missing, so you do not have that swollen mound on either side of the pussy, where the interior parts of the erectile tissue of a woman are hidden. Note, the toy will not get wet on it’s own, so there is no such thing as too much lube.

Jack got me started with some oral and placing a bullet vibrator inside my lips. Next, I made him lie next to me so he could watch. I pulled out Lexie from where I was keeping her still warm, under my camisole, between my breasts. I put a little fruit-flavored lube on her lips and made a show of licking it off. I worked my tongue around the lips, around the clit. I pressed my lips to her to gently kiss and suck. Jack was clearly enjoying the show. I tongued her tight (!) hole a little. Then I covered my fingers and hand in lube. I fingered her hole, making her slick inside. I also reached down to rub lube up and down Jack’s hard member. For a moment, he could go from imagining to seeing me lick a pussy.

I had Jack lay back on the bed and I positioned myself kneeling between tense, muscular thighs. I played with his cock with my hand and then I took Lexie and just brushed her lips over his tip. She was soft, wet, tight and slippery, so I had to work to get the tip of him to slip into her hole for the first time. She was going to need to get stretched out a bit. When she slipped over his cock, his head was thrown back, eyes closed. He was writhing with pleasure. He let out an enormous exhale, “Ohhh.”

I used my mouth to lick the base of his shaft, tonguing the place where his cock met her lips. I also sucked and kissed his balls as I worked her up and down. Soon, she was stretched just enough to move her more easily and I began to really enjoy watching the show as I worked him. Jack moaned, groaned, rocked and said “Oh yes…” over and over. Listening to him, watching him I was having a hard time not coming. I did not want to miss a minute of what I was doing to him. His cock moving in and out of the stretched lips was a gorgeous sight. I could not help but touch and run my fingers along the point where he disappeared inside of her. The shape of the pussy when forced wide open to accept him, was delicious.

At times I would wrap my hand around the base of his shaft, only allowing his tip to penetrate Lexie. I could see as his tip worked in and out of the tight opening.  So for a few seconds, they could only fuck a little. He pushed up and I pushed Lexie hard against my hand. I imagined if she were a real woman, she would be begging for more, deeper. Then I flattened my hand and allowed her to sink all the way down, Her clit and outer lips grinding on my hand, pinning it between them. Every time I did this, Jack would arch his back and sigh contentedly. Periodically I would move her up to move in and lick, kiss and suck, then I would move out of the way and fuck him hard with her. One hand worked Lexie and the other explored them both. I could move her faster than a real woman, more like a mouth or a hand, or achingly slow.

Jack came hard. He came a lot. I pulled Lexie up and drank his cum eagerly. I licked it off of him, and her. Then I sank her back down onto him, to give him that delicious tight embrace of her pussy while he was still throbbing. I could feel him throbbing though her. I could see his balls move with the force of his ejaculation. I let myself go and came.

We both enjoyed Lexie twice last night. It was an erotic and satisfying experience. The second time, I made Jack come multiple times, probably more than he has come in a single session before. When I felt the ejaculation, I lifted her off and sucked him a bit. He was stunned and spent by the time I was (we were) done. It is an experience I highly recommend for any couple.

Yes!

Written by alex on August 22nd, 2008

So you’ve heard, I had my first official anal! O_M_G, who knew it would be that amazing? Really, it is amazing enough that I want to tell people — vanilla friends, the person in line in front of me… I want a t-shirt announcing it. Of course I won’t, but WOW! The orgasm is amazing. As my pussy starts to pulsate, so does my ass, but it is very tightly full and there a lot of resistance. It makes the orgasm harder, more intense. I thought I might feel otherwise empty since there was no vaginal penetration. Nope – I feel filled all over. When Jack comes, his cock’s pulsations are unbelievable. I haven’t felt them that intensely before, except of course when he is in my mouth.

When Jack entered me there was a brief moment of intense pressure, it was not what I would characterize as pain. It is uncomfortable and it leads to a moment of indecision – Do I want to do this? I  continued and I was grateful that Jack was patient enough to go slow through this interval. I think if you are working with learning anal, develop some communication of when your partner needs to slow down and when they can proceed. After that sensation passed, within the first minute, I relax a bit more and everything feels wonderful. No, it is beyond that, it makes me have one continuous orgasm. Last night I added a vibrator up front to the mix and I think I might have blacked out for a bit there. I have to say that a real cock in your ass feels much better than any toy.

I have learned a couple of things beyond the need to work up to the size of the cock you hope to have in your ass. One, it helps to relax if I am already turned on. A fair amount of foreplay or some good old-fashioned cock-in-pussy fucking will go a long way here. Two, I need to be relaxed overall. I think if my legs or arms are under tension, it is going to be difficult to not also be tense everywhere. Tension might lead to a nice tight pussy, but may be detrimental to anal. My pussy gets wetter when I am bound up, my ass won’t. Combining anal with sensual bondage is going to be an exercise involving a great deal more mental discipline than I have now.

So now, three times in, I feel like we are well on our way to a whole new area of sex to explore. I can’t wait to try some new positions!

Not A Virgin Anymore

Written by Jack on August 21st, 2008

Half asleep, cuddled up like nested spoons, Alex gently presses her ass into my groin. I drop my hand onto her hip, fingers curling around the front of her pubic bone, fingertips just brushing below the waistband of her underwear. Nearby, a TV chatters away, ignored.

Alex and I can’t lay touching without building up sexual tension, and tonight is no exception. We’re cuddled close, and before long she is grinding her ass into my cock, making quietly breathless “Mmm” sounds as she moves against me. I’m hard quickly, and grinding right back against her ass with determined strokes.

At this point, it’s very late, and we’re tired. I’m expecting to either come all over her ass and thighs, or maybe have Alex change positions at the last second and swallow my load (Alex is a big fan of warm semen), followed by a peaceful night’s sleep. It’s at this moment that I notice how Alex’s breath catches each time the tip of my cock slides against her asshole. Fatigue falls away, replaced by excitement!

Alex has been practicing to have anal sex for the last few weeks. She’s progressed to the point where she can take in a medium-large plug (or a few fingers at a time) and enjoy the sensation. Tonight, she’s clearly enjoying the feeling of my tip pressing against her as we play. I decide to take her to the next level.

I reach for the bottle of lube that lives on our headboard and quickly make my cock, Alex’s entire ass and at least three of my fingers totally slick. I roll her slightly off her hip, onto her stomach, and begin teasing open her asshole. Alex relaxes slightly, and I pop into her with a finger, and then two more. She moans, and presses into my hand. I gently massage her anus, spreading her open until she’s drawn in the entire length of my fingers. She starts to come.

I gently withdraw my hand and move in behind her. Very slowly (the secret to happy anal sex is to do everything slowly), I press the tip of my penis against Alex’s asshole until I slide it into her. A second later, I’m halfway down the length of my shaft, urgently fucking Alex in the ass. She comes almost immediately, shuddering out a moaned “My God!” as her pussy clamps down over and over again, and her anus squeezes me tightly.

We lay on our sides and fuck for at least an hour. Eventually, I let go and filled Alex’s ass with a huge load of cum. She came over and over for nearly the entire time. When we’re finally done, we’re both excited: Alex’s first anal sex! We do a quick inventory, and she’s not just unhurt, she’s already begging for more.

It’s going to be an excellent weekend…

Camping

Written by alex on August 19th, 2008

We recently went camping with friends. The most titillating it got, sadly, is when five couples sat around after the kids went to sleep, drinking and playing a game that involved confessions and guessing who would confess which way. Somewhat enlightening, but not arousing. Some of my rare, racy confessions surprised the others; I was rewarded with “You know, it is always the quiet ones…” Then again, I’m not that quiet…

Jack and I go camping again. We have a very large tent that becomes an apartment when attached to our vehicle. It could accommodate many people and even allows someone as tall as Jack to stand up.

We arrive in a fairly secluded but well-accommodated camping ground, complete with electricity. To either side of us there are other campers, but through the brush and trees we can only hear them. The camp sites are open for viewing from the common roadway, and we occasionally pass our neighbors on the way to the amenities. There’s one attractive young couple to the north of us, and two attractive thirty-something women to the south. We manage to say “hi” in passing.

By the time the first evening comes around, we’ve grilled an excellent meal and tucked into a nice bottle of wine. We’re sitting close to the campfire, astride a picnic bench and facing each other. We start kissing and heavy petting, ignoring that we might be in full view of the road. The evening air is cool, but not cool enough to discourage mosquitoes, so we decide to move into the tent. We have the main room set up with a low table and cushions, with the mattress up inside the vehicle. It is cozy and we turn on a couple of electric lamps which illuminate and warm. We can hear the music from the camp site next to us. Why didn’t we think of a radio? Their music is distant but not bad.

Jack brought a plethora of toys to play with, one of which was a very sexy “truth or dare” game. No surprise, we always chose the dares which ranged from taking off articles of clothing to touching provocatively. “Move this article of clothing and lick someone.” “Kiss him/her here without hands.” “Open a button with your mouth.” The game never fails to excite.

Soon we’re on the mattress, rolling around and fucking away. Neither one of us is bothering to be quiet – we’re laughing, moaning and I am squealing. We’re away from home with no family to hear, so we can completely cut loose. The sound of the occasional well-placed swat and the resulting note of pleasure leave little to the imagination. Jack found that the SUV had many little hooks that provided great anchors for ropes with which to tie me up. The vehicle was moving and moving the tent with it. Somewhere in the fun, the music next door stopped.

The next late morning we decide to go for a short hike after breakfast. We pass the young couple at a scenic lookout. They recognize us, smile and say “Hi.” We wave and smile back. After a few hours, Jack decided we’d had enough of hiking and we went back to the facilities to shower together. The campground had nice private shower rooms with small dressing rooms attached. We soaped up, running our hands over each other until we were all covered in white foam and then decided to get in a quickie up against the wall of the shower. I am pretty flexible, so I stand on tiptoe for a while to accommodate Jack from behind. We were quiet, so no families would be disturbed. We came, rinsed and walked back to the camp site.

The music was playing again. We decided we were still very aroused and went inside the tent for some more petting, which led to some longer-term fucking, laying perpendicular, me on my back, lining up with Jack as he lay partially on his side. We can do this position comfortably for a long, long time. The tent would make occasional “twhap” sounds as the motion of the SUV make it flex and pop back into place. Although we are not screamers, we did not attempt to be quiet. The music next door had stopped again. Ravenous, we grilled up our dinner early, brewed a nice pot of strong coffee and lounged near the campfire to recharge.

Jack pulled a bottle of White Star out of the bottom of the cooler. He also had a sleeve of plastic champagne glasses. He assembled two and I giggled that he managed to pack them without my noticing. He said “I like how silly you get on champagne.” It is true, I am even less inhibited after a glass or so. A little while later our neighbors, the young couple, came walking over. He carried an apple pie and some paper plates. “Hi, we wanted to come over and share some dessert. You guys already ate dinner, too, right? We can’t eat this all by ourselves!” We were happy to help them with their pie. Jack offered coffee and champagne. They took us up on both.

We ate, drank and chatted into the early evening. The couple, Rachel and Nick, were young business professionals just barely in their 30s (although I would have guessed 20s), married for about 8 years. They also had a child, left at home with family. Rachel was a little bit taller than me, and slightly darker skinned, with medium-blonde hair to her shoulders. Nick was tall, with a lighter complexion, wavy light-brown hair, and fairly well built. They were easygoing and nice to chat with, but they did not seem to be very comfortable expressing affection in front of us. We, conversely were constantly touching, trying to keep it PG for our guests.

Again, the mosquitoes arrived. Jack said, “We have a nice large tent with a living room, you’re welcome to come inside and we can keep talking.” They looked at each other and agreed. Jack went in first to make sure it was “presentable.” We moved the party inside and everyone took up a spot on the floor of the tent, surrounding the low table, using the cushions scattered about. We continued to talk. Jack produced a bottle of white wine. Rachel and Nick had not camped much before, like us. I mentioned that we were still trying to figure out what to bring and do. We forgot a radio, but could hear their music and appreciated that they had it playing. Nick said, “You seem to be having a good time,” and smiled.

I immediately blushed and Jack rubbed my back and said “We like some time away together.” Rachel was looking at the box of “Truth or Dare” hanging in a mesh bag at the side of the tent. “Oh, that sounds fun,” she said. I looked over and said, “Well, yes it is, but it is R-rated.” She looked at me levelly “Is that bad, you know, among adults?” “No, not at all, would you two like to play?” Jack’s hand paused and he drew in his breath, surprised as hell that I said that. I added, “The dares can be just between couples…” She said, without blinking, “Alright.” We retrieved the box and set up the game.

We rolled dice to decide the order of play. Nick started. He chose truth, moved closer to Rachel and asked, “What is your favorite place to have sex?” She did not look up at him but took a drink. She said “The car.” “Really? That is nice to know.” He put his hand on hers. Jack and I exchanged glances. I was next. I chose truth and asked Nick, “Okay, what is your favorite place?” He looked me in the eye and said, “The shower.” Rachel said quietly, “Oh, yeah, that’s good, too.” Jack made an affirmative noise and gave my ass a pat. These two needed to have a little honest conversation. I went on, “They have some really nice clean, roomy showers here.” Rachel looked at Nick and smiled.

Rachel’s turn. “Truth. Alex, did you and Jack have sex in the shower?” “Yes.” Jack kissed my neck. She shifted a little, smiled and looked at her glass. Jack’s turn. He said “Dare,” and drew a card from the deck. “Remove something from someone using your teeth.” He looked me up and down and I did squirm a little self-consciously wondering what he would do. He moved forward, then leaned over me a bit to remove the pony tail holder, releasing my untamed hair. Rachel giggled and said, “That was too easy.” Jack looked over. “The game has just begun.” Everyone laughed and we all loosened up. The tent was definitely warming up.

After a few more rounds of fairly sexy truths like preferred positions and ideal fantasy dates, Rachel’s turn came up and she chose a dare. “Ask someone to compliment a part of your body.” She looked at each of us. She studied me for a moment and then asked Jack. Nick was a bit surprised, and I was instantly more aroused. Jack looked her over and she did not look away. He said, “You have nice legs.” “Chicken,” she said without hesitation. “I am a leg man, it is a compliment,” he replied. “Plus, I have not had a chance to see much else.” “The game is young,” I replied, touching his thigh.” Nick was clearly getting flushed, but it was not anger – he was staring at my tits, and then shifted to look at Rachel’s legs. “I have always liked your legs,” he said to her. She leaned to him for a kiss.

Jack picked dare, “Remove an article of clothing from yourself or someone else.” He dropped the card and immediately unbuttoned my shirt. I sat up on my knees. He then slowly opened it, ran his hands up my front pausing at my breasts, to slip his hands inside the top of the shirt. He slid it down my shoulders and arms. I was wearing a very tight, thin, sleeveless T underneath, but no bra. The T shirt had wrapped itself around my large breasts, shaping itself to my body. My nipples were hard. He discarded the shirt, pulled me towards him with a hand on the center of my back and kissed me. Nick sucked in breath and so did Rachel. Nick snatched up a card and said in a lower voice, “Dare.” “Kiss someone for more than 5 seconds below the neck.” He grabbed Rachel and kissed her on the neck and before we could protest that it had to be lower, he moved down, right between her C-cup breasts, his hands holding her arms at her sides. She arched her back and sighed. He was there for a bit more than 5 seconds. We watched as they were getting very aroused.

I was definitely wet, and convinced that Jack’s next step was to remove my shorts. My panties would have a growing wet area. My turn. I looked at each one of them, smiling as they waited for me to choose. “Truth,” I said. I paused again and they all looked at me expectantly. “Rachel, have you ever wanted to have sex in front of other people?” She was instantly breathless. “Yes.” Nick could not stop staring at the two of us. Rachel and I locked eyes and we both smiled. She inhaled and said, “We’ve been listening to you two having a good time over here and I have been thinking of it a lot.” “So that is why the music would stop.” “Yes.”

She grabbed a card, her eyes still locked on mine. She looked at the card, put it on the bottom of the deck, picked another. “Take off a piece of clothing.” She slowly took off her own pullover shirt to reveal a lacy, black bra. She had the complete attention of everyone in the tent. Jack, without picking up a card, said, “Dare…” and undid my shorts, laid me back on the cushions and pulled them off. There was no hiding any part of my arousal anymore. Nick said, “Dare” and removed Rachel’s pants. I laughed and said, “Dare” and removed Jack’s outer shorts. He was obviously hard. I moved in to straddle Jack, his hard-on in his undershorts grinding the wet area of my panties, and kissed him hard. His hands were up my shirt in a moment and it was whisked off over my head, freeing my breasts. I pulled off his shirt. Nick had removed all but his underwear he and Rachel were touching each other but watching us. We definitely did not care at this point. We were going to fuck, hard, and did not care who saw it. Actually, knowing that someone was watching was a major turn on.

Jack laid me back against the cushions and pressed down on top of me. I moaned and spread my legs for him. The ground was hard and Jack thought again, got up, took my hand and pulled me onto the mattress in the SUV instead. He removed my panties, his own shorts and pulled me on top of him as he sat with his back to the side of the truck. The nature of this mattress meant that I was given the extra couple of inches of support under my knees to straddle him and not have to crouch on my feet to move over him. I positioned myself over his cock and lowered myself onto him. His entire length slipped into my wet pussy very easily and he bottomed out inside of me. I arched back in pleasure. I bounced on him happily. He held my hips and he watched my bouncing tits. I felt someone come up behind me. Small delicate hands reached around in front of me to caress my nipples. I leaned back against Rachel. Her breath was hot in my ear. “You two are so hot to watch,” she whispered. I moaned and turned my head to the side. Rachel and I kissed. Nick positioned behind her, as she was up on her knees, behind me and between Jack’s legs. I could feel his hands graze my back as he ran his hands over her breasts. Jack was watching intently, moaning. His cock throbbed inside of me. His hands joined Rachel’s on my tits. Nick had obviously started fucking Rachel from behind and she began rocking against me, steadying herself with one hand on my hip. I leaned into Jack some more to give her room. Her other hand ran down my front, and fingertips grazed my clit and my pussy where Jack’s cock was sliding in and out. Jack felt this too and he obviously approved. One of his hands moved to my back, where he could periodically feel Rachel press against me. Nick was groaning and moving slowly in and out of Rachel and I felt his hand move to her breast then past my lower back to play with her clit. Her breasts were pushed against my back and she was moaning into my hair.

Nick shifted Rachel to lay her down on her back on the mattress and Jack moved his legs out the way and did the same with me. This mattress was bouncy and anything that any of us did, moved everyone. Jack entered me and Nick entered Rachel. My thigh was touching hers. My hands moved up over my head and brushed Rachel’s arm in passing. She also raised a hand and moved to hold hands with me. I turned to look at her and she was grinning at me. She was also regularly watching Jack and Nick. To get into a rhythm that was not disruptive on the mattress we all moved in unison, adjusting together to faster and harder thrusts. Rachel and I leaned in to kiss as the boys watched. We could feel their excitement and we kept it up until they came, again nearly at the same time. Rachel and I broke apart, came very loudly, and turned pay more attention to our partners.

We all moved to lay side-by-side a bit crowded on the mattress. Rachel and I were still sandwiched in the middle, but mostly facing away from each other. Wordless, we caressed our husbands. We all fell asleep in a pile. We woke up a short time later to feel a bit too cold to be naked. Nick and Rachel retired to their own tent. We planned to meet and go out someplace local for breakfast. Everyone had booked another night at the campground.

Girl-Girl

Written by alex on August 19th, 2008

We saw some porn together the other night. We had already had an hour of sweaty fun. Jack was behind me, playing with my still quivering pussy. He was playfully fingering when this couple of blondes appeared on the screen and started hot and heavy. There was something about them. Sure they were both cute, stunning really. This is not uncommon with porn. One was clearly more dominant, but the other was not unwilling. Something this time was different. Maybe they just really for once looked like they were enjoying each other, horny for each other. They were not just playing it up for a camera, in a way that they figured a man wanted to see. Well there was a lot of the obligatory passionate kissing and lots of attractive pussy eating. They did take turns, but it was not forced. They seemed to want to eat, taste, lick, and caress each other. They enjoyed making their partner crazy.

I was going wild and enjoying every minute of it. Normally girl-on-girl porn gets me going for one of two reasons: it shows me something I did not think of to try (nice outfit…) or I know Jack is getting off and is about to fuck me silly. Occasionally there is some move, some scene that is so hot that I am completely turned on, too. This was one of those scenes. I cannot fully explain why.

Nearing the end of the scene they were lying on their sides, spooning and the girl behind had her hand reaching around to rub between the closed legs of the girl in front. It was girly. Her hand was moving gracefully, gently exploring her shaved mound and lips. She extended one well-manicured finger to explore inside her slit to rub her. She increased the speed and force of her finger’s exploration. Then she used two fingers. The girl in front was moaning, practically purring and grinding back against her. It was erotic and it was beautiful. It was fucking art — literally. I came. By this time Jack was between my legs, probing with his tongue. I grabbed the remote and rewound the entire scene. He must have really liked it, too, as he instructed me to go all the way back to the beginning. I came repeatedly.

Swinging?

Written by alex on August 19th, 2008

I did some research. This time my topic was the swinger lifestyle. Given our penchant for getting hot and talking about other sex partners coming to play, I thought I would look into it.

So far, I am not convinced this is compatible with marriage — at least not our marriage. Some people seem perfectly happy with their alternative relationships, many were not. I have to admit I am too educated in virology/bacteriology and epidemiology to casually dismiss concerns about disease. I am also a parent, so concerns for my health are matched with a need to be healthy and available to my kids well into their adulthood (and to leave them an healthy inheritance).

I was not thrilled by the average local swinger club. Here I found a number of “houses” where people could gather in a somewhat tired-looking environments to meet up with other members. The club would have you call as a couple, get an “invitation” to a party and pay a membership fee. Then you pack clothing, your own beverages, toys and what have you and arrive at your pre-arranged date to conceivably to participate in group sex, trade partners, watch or just have sex with each other at the party. So far as I could see, the houses themselves were sordid. If I am aroused enough I can have sex anywhere. If I am planning an encounter, I would like the place to be a bit less stale. Even if I was going to have an environment where the entire place is one real live fuckfest in which to get nasty with my husband, I would like for it to be either totally bohemian or a little more sybaritic. I think a bar with a skilled bartender would be nicer than a cooler of hard lemonade. Perhaps even snacks to keep up the energy? Perhaps more “destination” parties would be much more appealing. Vegas and the Caribbean come to mind…

Next I explored the blogs of open marriages, that regularly dabble in extramarital liaisons individually and occasionally together. In some cases the individual affairs occurred when the group event was no longer the new rush. Often, the writing represented the perspective of one partner, so some critical information on dual satisfaction was missing. Regularly, the writer did mention times when boundaries were crossed and conflict ensued.

I wonder if you are really going to make one-sided relationships with people for a rush, isn’t it like a drug? Won’t you want it to keep getting more titillating? Won’t sneaking out on your partner or maybe having the encounters you do not have sanctioned become the next logical step in this process? It seems that breaking the “rules” set down in the beginning as boundaries for the activity were now reaching a point where they were the new, tantalizing forbidden fruit. Now he was sneaking out, doing chicks at the office, having secret partners, and/or or looking at her non-swinger friends with an eye for seduction. He was less concerned about her opinion of his partners. She was seeking her long-term boyfriend in new secret ways, more intimate places, secretly fucking her boss or slyly dabbling in the guy next door. She was craving more time with these men in more dangerous or un-agreed to ways and feeling betrayal if her casual flings had other casual flings.

It was not surprising at all to find that hurt feelings were occurring within many of these arrangements, even though all of them insisted the lifestyle prevented them. These feelings did not seem all that different to me to those you might have if your partner in a closed marriage cheated.

I thought the nearly universal “don’t fall in love, or stop seeing them,” rule was jarring. Jack had an interesting observation: if one of the rules is “break it off if you fall in love,” what part of themselves is this person denying, crushing by doing that? What are you doing to yourself if you regularly open up to the possibility of love and then kill it? It seems that the natural human inclination to bond would get burned out. I don’t think I could completely detach emotionally from anyone that I had fucked repeatedly and had come to crave. At some point he/she would start talking about his/her life and at some point Jack or I might start to give a shit. That sounds like dangerous ground.

Other possibilities for a dedicated couple are encounters with clean and experienced professionals that practice total detachment and strict boundaries. I saw an interesting episode of the Diary of a Call Girl. Here Belle and Ben helped a couple get reconnected, by essentially starting them in a foursome. Early into the swapped-couple foreplay, the husband could not take his eyes off of his wife. He stood up and joined his wife in the bed and Belle and Ben carefully withdrew, watched and pretended to do the same on the same bed. The couple had the foursome excitement, but renewed their attraction to each other.

Other intriguing idea is to attend sex parties for the ability to watch others and fuck each other in public. Here I think the environment might be exceptionally stimulating if the expectations of each person were clearly outlined ahead of time. It might be very good fantasy fodder. Again, I am sure Vegas would oblige.

I might like to have encounters with a couple that is also strictly monogamous, but interested in frankly sexual content, discussions and in separate, parallel play nearby. Making love in the presence of others that are clearly in love with each other and also enjoying each other would have its own distinct thrill.

I have more research to do.

Hair

Written by alex on August 19th, 2008

On men, I like chest hair and leg hair. I don’t understand men waxing or shaving their hair off unless it is for aero/hydrodynamics or protection from hair-grabbing equipment. Men should look like there is testosterone surging through them. They should look all grown up and ready for experienced, skilled, fun.

There is nothing wrong with a little grooming, of any hair. I am not as fond of facial hair. Even unruly eyebrows are a bit unappealing. There is no body hair that can’t use a bit of a trim here and there.

Head hair? I like men with thick, dark hair that is a tiny bit long. Hair loss issues? Forget the horrible comb-over. Shave the rest bald, it is totally hot and I think overcomes that “looking older” thing that happens when hair-loss advances.

I love the way Jack’s dark, glossy chest hair is so obedient. It lines up perfectly, or as he says, “it has a grain.” It is a well-groomed map pointing a tantalizing path down to his cock. I like to run my fingers through, grab and pull on it. It is great fun to play with in the shower. I soap it up and write messages or little pictures with a finger. He closes his eyes and tries to read what I am writing. I also love to run my flat hands up his stomach and chest, right in the middle, when it is glistening with sweat. I delight in trying to disrupt the map, hide the path pointing to my personal playground.

I also like to have a last good hair grab during sex of the thick, chestnut-brown hair on his head. He warns me before he is about to get another ivy-league cut for work, so I can have another last good, fingers-wrapped-in-it tug.

Conversely, I prefer now that there is hardly a hair on my body, other than fine, nearly colorless fuzz, from the neck down. That reminds me, I was thinking I would go for a wax this week.

Pron on the Tube

Written by alex on August 14th, 2008

I have learned that I have a critical mass while watching porn. It has to be the good kind – with the sexual activity not clearly fake and very little of the stupid dialog. There is a point where I have been watching tits bouncing and men slam their dicks against nice tight round asses for long enough that it makes me just lose control. I don’t even have to be touched or moving, I just lie there and come.

I think I understand the attraction to some porn where there is just a bunch of violent jackhammer fucking, I like a hard fucking, but that is not necessarily exciting for me to watch. Ditto anything with real violence, not sexy. There was one the other night where the action was believable and the guy was very energetic and enthusiastic. He did not just fuck her a lot, he ran his hands all over appreciatively. He was even kind enough to spank, caress, kiss and nibble on her ass while she was sucking him. When he played with her tits, he looked like he liked to explore them, he did not just look like he was trying to pop water balloons. He gave her a reach around while he fucked her from behind, thoughtfully giving her clit a little attention. Yeeeesss.

I also like when the guy makes pleasure sounds. It makes it seem like he is having a good time and not just getting his rocks off in some otherwise unappealing chick. I also learned that the final release where you are just waiting for two people to finally hook up is pretty satisfying. You just want her to finally get fucked, you don’t care if it is the guy she arrived with or the guy sex-crazed in the next room with the hot wife helping. When she finally came, I came.

Disallowed

Written by alex on August 12th, 2008

I am completely taken with a position where I am flat on my back in the bed. Jack lays on top, pins me and keeps my legs together with his knees. Actually, it lends itself well to more bondage, where my thighs, ankles are tightly bound together.

His cock probes slowly, between the soft top of my bound thighs, coaxing open my shaven cleft. I have the unbearable need to spread open but I can’t. Slowly, he dips in and out of my now fully engorged lips, with the head of his cock dredging through the spreading wetness and against my swollen clit. I struggle on the edge of orgasm, trying to control it so I miss none of the sensation of him moving up and down my outer pussy. It feels somewhere between sweetly illicit and completely depraved, as if we are not allowed to be fucking, as if penetration were forbidden. We get more and more erotically entangled, just can’t help ourselves. We grind harder, the tip of him partially entering my hole, increasing my desire to spread and swallow him entirely within me. So now I try to press my legs together more, feel more of him moving in and out. I try to encase his shaft in some way. I am unbelievably wet and amazingly slick. I lose control and come. He manages to hold on a little longer, savoring my orgasm. He climaxes and covers the outside of my hungry cunt with his cum.

As he rolls to lie next to me I reach down with my fingers to gather some of his gift, now slowly flowing on my lips and down my ass. It feels so wonderfully warm, wet and a bit sticky. I can’t help but bring my hand up to lick each finger clean. I imagine that if this were a forbidden encounter, I would have to use my panties to wipe away the evidence and hide them until they could be rinsed clean. Perhaps I would discard them nearby.

O Face

Written by alex on August 11th, 2008

I am sitting, working, on a job that requires deep analysis of thousands of points of complex and if not careful, misleading data.

Bad girl that I am, I decided it was time to have a little extra internal exercise. Two lovely little glass balls have never been so darn distracting. I thought it was unlikely that they would cause an orgasm. Surprise. Luckily I am in the home office with no meetings so if I lean way back and come, no one else (well except you) will know.

I will have to review my work tomorrow.